WOMER'S WISDOM
Dear Womer,
Is it ok for a girl who has a boy
friend to sleep on the same bed with another guy if nothing happens?
Sam
Dear Sam,
Ok here's my wisdom on the subject of a boyfriend finding
out his girlfriend slept in the same bed as another guy.
Anyway you look at it the girlfriend put herself in a situation
she could have avoided. Most likely she was not forced to share the same bed
with the other guy and of course there were probably other areas where she could
have leaned her head for rest.
Any
boyfriend who hears his girlfriend slept in the same bed with another guy is
going to have images flashing through his head constantly of things becoming hot
and heavy between the two.
But
in this situation, no intimacy was shared, just opposite sides of the bed.
Regardless of the circumstances, physical or not, just sharing the bed is a
break of trust by the girlfriend.
Any
girl who truly cares for her boyfriend would not consider sharing a bed with
anyone besides him. By sleeping in the same bed with the other guy it shows
that her feelings for her boyfriend are not genuine or she would not put herself
in that situation taking his feelings into consideration.
If
the shoe were on the other foot I am sure the girlfriend would have a huge
problem with her boyfriend sharing a bed with another woman. So once again even
though nothing happened between the girlfriend and the other guy, the act of
sharing the bed is in itself cheating.
Sincerely,
Womer
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That is not cheating!
(Ijar, Nov 26,02)
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